I have come to enjoy the fun and delicious power that I have over my husband when I have his penis locked in chastity. William is a big strong man and I’m only average or petite sized. He is such a strong willed and dynamic man at work and in social settings, but knowing that I can bring him to his knees with a just a look or a comment or by showing him the key I keep tucked in my bra makes me giddy with delight.
William is a social person and loves to talk. Throughout much of our marriage, he has dominated conversations when we are in social situations. But now I have my secret power. When we are having drinks with my girlfriends, he gets very talkative at times and runs me over in conversation. But now, all I have to do is slide my hand to his lap under the table and give his chastity device a little tug or squeeze and I whisper in his ear, “Sweetie, you’ve talked enough. It’s time for you to be quiet until I tell you that it’s your turn again.” He knows that if he ever wants to get out of his device any time soon, that he better not talk until he is spoken too.
He also has a bad habit of interrupting me at times. All I have to do is give him the “look”, with one raised eyebrow and I say, “Sweetie, you interrupted me. He will immediately stop and say, “I’m sorry Dear. I apologize.” He also knows that I hate it when he corrects me in front of others. When he begins to speak and says, “No, Honey, actually it’s…” I give him a look as I finger the chain that the key is on and he stops dead mid sentence and says, “Oh…never mind. I don’t really know. You’re probably right, Dear.”
My girl friends smile sweetly and seem impressed with how I can bring him to heel so promptly. They all comment on how my husband is so much more of a gentleman than their husbands. Most of their husbands are ass holes. My husband is one of the few who is welcome to hang out with the girls. They ask how I got to have such a gentlemanly husband. I’m tempted to tell them sometime, but I don’t think that we’re ready for that yet.
The chastity device has proven to be an effective training tool to break my husband of his habit of ogling other women. When we are walking together, the most drop dead gorgeous woman may walk by on the sidewalk. All have to do is play with the chain around my neck and he will take my hand and look into my eyes or look down at the sidewalk without so much as a glance at the other woman.
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Looking forward to hearing just how far you can push him!
My Wife has kept me locked the past 11 years and three years prior to this building up to full time. All she has to do is point her finger at the floor in front of her and I immediately kneel before her. 63 days is the longest she has kept me locked. She keeps me locked before my birthday for as many days as I am going to be old.
Wow, Brett, I like her pre-birthday chaste plan. I’ll have to consider that with William. I have had him roll a pair of dice to determine when his next chance at a release will be. I’ve also bet with him when his favorite sports team wins or looses and set the number of weeks by the difference in the score.
We were married for three years when I was pregnant. I was in the late thirties, he in the early thirties. We both wanted a child, but I did not want to quit my career. We talked for a long time and eventually decided that he terminate his work and take care of the child, after baby born.
That day, two books came to my email from an unknown email: Female Domination – Elise Sutton and Real Women Don’t Do Housework – Fumika Misato I read both in a few days, and I liked it.
I gave my husband books to read. He read them in two days. On the same day, I was called by a my twin sister
— I sent you two books
-That was you? Unknown email
I wanted to surprise you.
-You did it
– Do you like books?
-Yes. That’s what I need. I’m pregnant.
-Wonderful. Me too. What month are you?
-First
-I’m third. Come to me to talk about the husbands.
– Who was that? my husband asked.
– My sister Ele. She sent me books. What do you think about the books?
– They’re interesting. I think I’m too masturbating.
-I know. It will be solved. Then I went to see my sister
– You’re always surprised by Elle. Does your husband already wear Chastity belt
– Yes, he’s been wearing CB for a year and a half.
– Would you like some coffee? asked her husband.
– Yes Honey, cook the coffee and bring it to us.
– He does all the housework? I asked her.
– Yes, she laughed. I bought you chastity belt.
– It’s beautiful. Nice little bars. What if his penis gets hard?
– Cold shower solves this problem. It will be difficult for him in the beginning, but he will get used to it. Coffee arrived.
-Thank you dear
That night my husband was wearing chastity belt just two hours. After that he was wearing the CB every day whole month, but not at night. Then he started wearing it all the time. Night erections were troubling him, but he got used to it in two months. He wanted to get rid of compulsive masturbation, and that help him to overcome the initial difficulties.
I was absent from home on official travels for ten days a month, sometimes two or three days, sometimes all week. I made him a habit to chastity belt I remove only one time per week. That he had a very positive effect on his concentration on my satisfaction.
I wanted that in nine months until the baby was born that he, used to chastity belt, to establish a teasing and denial and that he starts doing almost all household tasks. My sister and her husband helped us to achieve this goals.
A month before birth and a month after delivery I was at home at maternity, and after a month I started to work. The baby is fed on the bottle from the very beginning. That’s what my husband did. He stood up preparing milk, dressing the babyit further reinforced my nature of the goddess, bathing…The first three months after delivery, it was very difficult for him.
Our daughter was a year old. The first word she said was Dad, but soon after that, Mom.
Husband’s transformation
He believed his masturbation was bad. This has helped him to be very motivated to wear chastity belt.
-Why do you think that your masturbation is bad?
– Masturbation pulls me to watch porn, porn makes me want to masturbate. It’s a vicious circle. Then my fantasies are always about other women, never about you. My desire for you disappears.
– How do you feel when your penis is in the cage?
– After a few days, my desire for you is incredible. I’m just thinking about you and I want to give you pleasure. The more orgasms you have, the better I feel afterwards.
– When after four weeks of denial you have an orgasm how you feel?
– I feel partially relaxed, with no energy and desire for you
– How long it takes?
– Two or three days if I have a massive teasing, with lots of edging.
– How do you feel when I ruin your orgasm?
-I feel small body relaxation without losing energy and desire for you
-Do you think we should abolish the full orgasm?
-Not. Full orgasm, it should be reduced, but I would like to occasionally feel it.
He’s a much better husband now
My transformation
Female led Marriage it made me feel and being a goddess. The fact that I can take pleasure without any reciprocity has made my libido get stronger. Freedom from household chores it further reinforced my nature of the goddess.
My observations.
FLM has a strong sexual component that is much stronger than in ordinary marriages. We both enjoy sex. I have a lot of orgasms, he very rarely.
Oral sex has become very important, intercourse less important. When I say oral sex I mean cunnilingus. Fellatio I never liked. I think that’s is not what the lady should to do.
Before FLM cunnilingus was only for my exciting, 2 minutes and after that penetration of 15 minutes. Now I have one-hour cunnilingus, often even longer with multiple orgasms.
Denial and FLM do it to he has, premature ejaculation during intercourse. Ejaculates in a minute or two. It can not be controlled. That was unacceptable for me. It would completely disrupt his denial cycle Benzocaine condoms mentioned in your book have made it possible for us to have intercourse. He does not feel much down, but intercourse is very intimate for both of us. I have an orgasm, he has the pleasure of having an intercourse, and I after lovemaking return his penis in the cage. We have a intercourse once a week or less.
He has become a dad and it fills him, I am immensely happy that I am finally a mother.
When I’m out of the house for work, and outside the city we communicate via Skype.
He writes a diary every day, about what he does and feels. Every evening he sends me to my email.
How wonderful Freja. That is very similar to our marriage and experience only you started much earlier that I did. I wish I had known about it earlier so I could have put him in Chastity a month before our wedding day. It took me awhile to believe him when he told me about his true desire to be a submitted husband to me. If I had known, and understand what I know now, we would have started from our wedding day. William has said that he would like to renew our vows some time with him delivering thighs of submission to me as his dominant wife. We wouldn’t feel comfortable doing that in the presence of any of our family or most of our friends. Maybe we will do it sometime at one of the BDSM play parties like we attended once. That group of people would be very accepting of such a thing. Our family and friends, most of them, would find it strange.
I am a 64 year old man and would never ever allow any woman to put my cock in a cage. This give women more control than they deserve. Men do not do this to women in today’s world so why should men, I am a Italian/Sicilian American man and a woman would have a better chance in growing wings and flying coast to coast than getting my penis into a cage.
Well Louis, I did not force my husband in chastity. He likes to be in chastity. He says that he finds it exciting to submit to me, and let me control when he can orgasm. William is a very smart, strong, successful man. He likes to take a break from being in charge, when he is home with me.
At 65 i don’t think so. No woman should have that kind of control/ if chastity is so good then you women shouldn’t mind being in chastity either. so step up to the plate
Thanks for your thoughts on the subject Louis. Our case is similar to most couples that practice male chastity, my husband came to me asking for us to do this. I don’t see any way that a woman could actually force this on a man, if he wasn’t into it.
I think your exactly right. If the man didn’t really want it then no cage would stop him.
My wife is only just coming round to accept the idea that I PREFER it when she has orgasms but not me. I have shown her I can last 2 weeks and now she is interested in making it 3, then once a month. She has 2 orgasms a week, from my fingers, tongue and her dildo.
My wife’s favourite for me, is when I come very prematurely, before even getting hard. She says if I can do it that way, she will let me come any time. And as a reward, she will let me have an erection that I can masturbate to completion as she watches – but I may have to wait a month …
Yes, we women grew up hearing from our older sisters and friends, that it hurt guys to be teased but not be able to come. We were told that guy’s would get mad at us and call us “prick teases”, which we were told was a really bad thing to be labeled.
When my husband introduced me to tease and denial games, and male chastity, I thought he had to be kidding. After the first time he came out of three weeks of chastity and denial of orgasm, I witnessed the most intense orgasm I could remember him having in a long time. It took me a while to get over my guilt, that I was being a cruel tease.
But my husband admitted to me, that he had become a chronic habitual masturbator, to where it no longer felt very special or exciting for him. This helped me feel better about helping him get his chronic habit under control, and make it more special for him. I decided I would just consider that I was actually being a good wife, by making it special for him. After I found out that me controlling and denying his orgasms, made them more exciting and special for him, I became curious about the effect of longer and periods of denial.
Maybe it will help your wife to understand what I came to understand.