When Men Get Horny They Become More Attentive

I am always amazed at the difference in William between when he’s just a few days since his last orgasm and when he is made to go 2 to 3 weeks without. When it has only been a few days I might tell him, on some Friday evening, that the next day I’d like him to get up early and dress up to take me to town. He will ask what we’re doing and will complain, “Awww, do I really have to?”

But when he’s three or four weeks in and really getting horny all I have to say is, “Sweetie, tomorrow I have some things to do and I’d like you to escort me to town. I’d like you to get up early, shower and groom yourself impeccably and I’d like you to wear your blue pinstripe suit.” All he says when he is properly horny is, “Yes Dear. What time should I be ready?”

On Saturday morning he was sitting on the couch reading the newspaper, groomed and dressed, with his shoes neatly shined. He looked so handsome and it warms my heart to have my husband willing to do these things for me.

I had him drive me to my morning hair appointment. He came in with me and I had him come to the back of the salon so I could introduce him to the women who work with my hair stylist. They all gushed about how nice we looked all dressed up and they asked if it was our anniversary. I told them that it was just a Saturday luncheon date. They were all very impressed and one remarked about what a romantic couple we are.

One of the young women commented on how pretty my nails looked and asked where I get my nails done. I told her that William does my nails and that prompted all of them to do a lot of cooing and commenting on how sweet and romantic that was. They told William that they liked his work.  One gal asked if she could borrow him sometime to do her nails and the salon owner said she should give him a job there in the salon. William blushed from all the attention.

When my stylist started on my hair I handed my purse to William and he went to the waiting room to sit and read while I had my hair done. He looked so sweet sitting there with my handbag at his side and the women commented on how sweet my husband is.

After I was done and William paid, he went to get the car, start the air conditioning to cool it down, and pick me up at the door. All of the women in the salon gushed over what a sweet and adoring husband I have. I was so proud.

Afterward, William took me to my favorite restaurant Le Feu Sacre. It was a wonderful lunch and William, who is several weeks into a period of chastity, was the perfect  doting and attentive husband. At one point a drop dead gorgeous young woman walked past our table on her way to the ladies room. She was wearing a beautiful short dress and high heels and I can only wish my legs still looked as good as hers.

William, hoping to soon have a chance at choosing a slip from the treats and favors grab basket, never allowed his eyes to leave mine for even a second. He was the perfect attentive husband. We even had a very cute waitress and hostess. Poor William was surrounded by beautiful young women but he knew better than to even try to sneak a peek.

I feel so special at these times. I can tell that other women notice how different he is from most other men and are impressed with how attentive he is to me. I imagine that they are often thinking, “Wow what does that woman have, what is her secret that her husband adores her so completely?”

Afterward I told William that I wanted to go shopping for shoes. We went to a very nice shoe store  and I picked out many nice styles to try. When the woman came out of the stock room with my selections in the various sizes, William knelt at my feet and took the boxes from her and slipped off my shoes. She offered to take my shoes off and on for me but I told her that this was my husband’s job. The woman offered again then I told her that this is what husbands are for. She laughed and said she can’t imagine her fiance ever doing this for her. I told her that, the engagement period  is the perfect time to start her new husband’s training for such things. She said that she couldn’t even imagine how to start training him for such things.

I suggested that she tell her fiance that her mother and sister would like to get to know him better and would like to have lunch with him. I suggested that, after lunch, she, her mother, and sister just take him shopping with them. I told her she could tell him that she wants his opinion on her clothes and shoe purchases. I told her that he would probably be very cooperative because he would not want to seem unloving in front of his soon-to-be mother-in-law and sister-in-law.  She said that this might work because her fiance works very hard to try and impress her mom with what a wonderful boyfriend he is and what a wonderful husband he will be.

I suggested that she just put him in the proper situation where he is shopping with three women for an afternoon, holding purses, carrying shopping bags and spending the day catering to the women of his future family.

I instructed her on how to just hand him her purse without any question. I instructed her on how to call him to the dressing room door while dress shopping to hand him her selections to hang back on hangers and give him instructions to fetch her dresses in alternate sizes. I told her, that while shoe shopping with her mother and sister, she should just raise her feet to him and say, “Here Honey, be a sweetheart and slip my shoes off for me put these new ones on.” I pointed out that he will be much more likely to be compliant when he is in the presence of three women, particularly his future mother-in-law. I advised her that she should try on lots and lots of shoes to get him more accustomed to kneeling at her feet and attending to her while shopping. I told her that lots of praise from her mom and sister about what a sweet guy he is and what a great husband he’s going to be and how happy they are to have him joining the family, will make him more appreciative of waiting on her. I suggested that she find as many opportunities as possible to create these shopping outings in the time leading up to her wedding so he becomes accustomed early to shopping with her, her mother and her sister.

She seemed very excited about my suggestions and said that she would try it. It was exciting for me to think that I was mentoring a new young bride as she embarked on her married life. I told her that these things work and this is how a woman gets a dutiful and adoring husband. I reached down to William, where he was kneeling at my feet, patted him on the head and said isn’t that right Sweetie?” He answered sweetly, “Yes Dear.” Then I said, “I think I’d like to try the red ones in the six and a half again”. He slipped the shoes on my feet.

I made a selection and had William box up all of the shoes I had tried on. He always does such a good job. He knows exactly how to wrap the tissue paper between the shoes and slip the cardboard divider between them just as they come from the shoe factory. The shoe clerk seemed very pleased. William took my purchase to the counter and handed me my purse. I reached inside and pulled out his wallet and handed it to him. He pulled out his credit card and paid for my shoes. When he was done he handed his wallet back to me and I slipped it in my purse and then handed my purse to him to carry. When the clerk had placed my shoe purchase in a bag William took it from her. I never have to carry or even handle a shopping bag when I have William shopping with me. We walked out with William carrying my purse and shopping bag. The store clerk watched us walk out and was smiling. She seemed very impressed with what a doting husband I have.

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7 thoughts on “When Men Get Horny They Become More Attentive

  1. Will says:

    What a lovely day to be treated as a goddess by your husband 🙂
    I can only imagine how William must have felt like to be on his knees in front of you in a public place.

    Have you thought about training other women on how to train their husbands? It seems like there are a lot of women who can use that training.

    Thank you for the post, I’m looking forward to more 🙂

    Will

  2. Philipp says:

    That is a great blogpost. You really have your husband well trained. You must love how obedient he is and how all the women envy you. Maybe more women than I thought are interesteed in female-led relationships.

    I love how you mentored the woman in the shoe shop how to make her finance go shopping with her, carry her purse and put shoes on her feet.

    I love to go shoe shopping with a lady and to put shoes on her feet.

    • Thanks for your comment Phillipp. Yes I think there are more women out there who like female led relationships then you might imagine. There are more women today, than ever before, earning college degrees, becoming lawyers and doctors and creating all kinds of careers. A lot of us like having a lot of say in our lives both at work and at home.

      I think that there have always been relationships where the women we’re in charge. In the past it was just done more quietly. I know a lot of my friends whose grandparents had relationships where the man went off to work and the woman stayed home and took care of the house. The man brought his paycheck home every Friday and handed over to the wife because she was better at managing money and she wrote most of the checks anyway. She bought the groceries and paid the utilities and bought the clothes for the kids. Many men were happy with this arrangement as long as meals were put on the table, there was some beer in the refrigerator, and the game was on the TV.

      I am very proud of what a great provider my husband is and what a strong manly man he is. At home he is like my knight in shining armor who treats me like a queen.

      And I do love it when he calls me at work and gets my secretary and leaves the message that he wants to know what I would like him to make for dinner. My secretary and all the other women in the office gush with approval and tell me how lucky I am to have a man who fixes me dinner and has it waiting for me when I get home from work. I have attained a high level of success in my career thanks to the great man I have supporting me.

      William happens to be 6 foot 1, broad-shouldered, fairly athletic and fairly strong. No one views him as a wimp. And when most women see him follow my lead and treat me with adoration they say, “Wow, what a great guy you have.” Young single women asked my advice on how they can find a guy like mine. Yes, I’m proud of him.

      Thanks again for your very sweet comment. I hope you find a special lady at whose feet you can kneel and slip on her glass slipper.

      • Philipp says:

        Dear Ma’am, thank you very much for your very kind and long reply. Yes, I have noticed too that there are more and more young women who want to have a career and be in charge in their relationships.

        You must be very proud indeed of your husband who is a great provider and has dinner waiting for you when you come home. Does he do most or even all of the housework? No wonder your secretary and the other ladies in your office gush with approval. I am sure his support was very helpful for your career success. Maybe it is time for us men to put on the apron and do the housework so that our women can have successful career?

        What advice do you give the young single ladies when they ask you how they can find a submissie man?

        Yes, Ma’am, I also hope that I will find this special lady at whose feet I can kneel and put some sexy high-heeled sandals on her feet!

    • And Phillip, you mentioned that maybe more women are into a female-led relationship than you imagined. I think this is very true. I see lots of discussion sites about female-led relationships on the internet. I also think there are more people engaging in chastity play than most people imagine.

      I spoke to the people at Mature Metal who make custom fit chastity devices like the Queen’s keep and Jailbird. They say that you must get orders in early before the holidays because they have a huge rush of wives buying chastity devices as a present for their husband, and men buying them as a gift and handing over the key to their wives.

      They said that their second busiest time of the year are the weeks leading up to Valentine’s Day. Now isn’t that romantic?

      • Philipp says:

        Dear Ma’am, thank you for your reply. It is very kind of you to take the time to reply to my comment. I think you are right. I also noticed that there are more and more websites and blogs dedicated to female-led relationships and male chastity.

        Great news that the makers of customized chastity devices and cock cages are so busy and that so many wives buy chastity devices of their husband! It is very romantic indeed that they are so busy in the weeks before Valentine’s Day. Nice, that more and more men will have these devices locked around their cocks on Valentine’s Day and become the obedient, well-behaved husbands their wives want them to be.

        I hope one day my future special lady will present me with a custom fit chastity device or cock cage too and lock it around my cock. I would happily wear it for her.

  3. KinkyPleasures says:

    I enjoyed this piece of writing back in August when you first posted it but I did not comment. I apologize if I am bombarding your posts now with comments but I saw you were missing the attention of your readers.

    This is an excellent example of how to get men to become more like the men you want them to be. For me it would have been very easy in the beginning. I enjoy serving women especially carrying bags through a store. It’s the small things that I really try to pay attention to. My wife has noticed this over time and has been very inviting when going to the mall into stores like Sonoma and VS. She knows I like those stores anyway and now really likes my attentiveness while in them.

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